Well, I just e-mailed Julz at T21 and asked him to delete my user ID. It's sad, but I know it's the right thing to do. It must be three and a half years since I first found the Stakehouse at the late, lamented, BuffyUK.org. Maybe two and a half -I can't remember if it was the summer of 1999 or 2000. I'll check sometime.
Nothing lasts forever. When it stops being worth it, you have to let go.